The coach-athlete relationship is a two way street. It is important that the coach is there for the athletes as they need them. But also there is a level of self sufficiency expected from the athlete on the other side. I’ll explain what I mean by that later. This is more of an analysis of what I’m looking for in athletes or eventually coaches (when I’m looking for one myself).
As a coach, what I’m looking for in athletes is that they are willing to communicate openly. I consider communication being one of the most important building blocks. Why is that?
Many times I’ve encountered athlete’s that are too goal oriented and are pursuing it by any means necessary. And here we come to the coaches responsibility to diligently analyze the athlete’s workouts and spot when the athlete might be going way above his ability to recover. The more feedback after the workout the coach gets, the better the next workout could be. If you are not telling the coach how you are feeling and how it went, the coach can’t prescribe an adequate level of the subsequent workouts. Also if you are feeling any pain during the workout it is good to speak with the coach and find the best way to train without the pain.
As mentioned above, a coach should be the guide for the athlete. Providing a vision on how to achieve their goal. While sharing the structure with the athlete, the coach becomes a kind of a guide. During the first weeks of the training process the coach should be able to set or reset the expectations. But this shouldn’t happen in a dictatorial way. As such the coach should be presenting the following personality traits:
All in all the relationship needs to be mutual. You could pull it through as a type A athlete, but if there is no personal connection I think you’d miss out on a lot.
Also everyone starts at different starting points, and everyone is different. What would work for Wik (my husband) , wouldn’t work for me and there shouldn’t be a cookie cutter approach for both of us. So athletes shouldn’t be comparing themselves against their peers, rather compare yourself against “yesterday’s” you.
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